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The Power of Gratitude: How Being Thankful Can Transform Your Mental Health

  • Writer: Julie Barris | Crisis Counselor | Therapist-in-Training
    Julie Barris | Crisis Counselor | Therapist-in-Training
  • Feb 10

Being thankful can transform your mental health by shifting your focus from negativity to positivity, helping to reduce stress and anxiety. Regularly practicing gratitude not only improves your emotional well-being but also strengthens your resilience against life's challenges.

The Power of Gratitude: How Being Thankful Can Transform Your Mental Health

In a world filled with constant stress and distractions, it’s easy to forget the simple power of gratitude. Yet, science is now revealing that practicing thankfulness doesn’t just make you feel good—it can actually improve your mental health, boost your mood, and help you cope with life’s challenges in profound ways.


The Science Behind Gratitude


Research has shown that gratitude is more than just a fleeting emotion. It’s a powerful tool that can rewire your brain to focus on the positive aspects of your life, shifting your mindset away from negativity. When you express gratitude, your brain releases dopamine and serotonin—two neurotransmitters that are essential for feeling happy and content. These "feel-good" chemicals are the same ones targeted by antidepressant medications, which means that by simply being thankful, you can achieve a mood boost without the need for a prescription.


In one study conducted by the University of California, participants who kept a daily gratitude journal reported feeling happier, less anxious, and more optimistic. Another study from the University of Pennsylvania found that individuals who practiced gratitude had improved sleep, reduced depression, and greater levels of physical health. It's clear that cultivating gratitude can have a profound impact on your well-being—mentally, emotionally, and physically.


Gratitude and Mental Health: A Lifeline


When dealing with mental health struggles such as anxiety or depression, it can be difficult to see beyond the cloud of negative thoughts that often dominate your mind. This is where gratitude comes in. By actively seeking out the positive moments in your day, you create a mental habit of looking for the good—even when it feels hard. It doesn’t mean ignoring the tough stuff, but rather acknowledging that there is also beauty and joy in the everyday.


One powerful practice is the “three good things” exercise, which encourages you to list three positive things that happened each day. These don’t have to be monumental events—sometimes, the smallest moments are the most meaningful: a warm cup of coffee, a kind word from a friend, or the feeling of sunlight on your skin. Over time, this practice trains your brain to look for gratitude in even the most mundane aspects of life, which can shift your mindset and build resilience against stress and adversity.



Gratitude and Relationships: Strengthening Connections


Gratitude can also strengthen your relationships. By expressing appreciation for the people in your life, whether it’s a simple “thank you” or a heartfelt note, you deepen your emotional connections and create a positive cycle of kindness. Studies show that couples who regularly express gratitude toward each other have stronger relationships and are more satisfied with their partnerships. Feeling appreciated is one of the fundamental needs of human beings, and when you show your gratitude, you not only improve your own mental health, but also the well-being of those around you.


Practical Tips for Cultivating Gratitude


  1. Start a Gratitude Journal: Each day, jot down three things you’re thankful for. This can be as simple as a good cup of coffee, a compliment from a coworker, or a moment of laughter with a friend.


  2. Express Your Thanks: Tell the people in your life how much they mean to you. A sincere "thank you" can go a long way in strengthening your relationships and lifting your spirits.


  3. Practice Mindfulness: Take a few moments each day to sit quietly and reflect on the present moment. Notice the sights, sounds, and sensations around you, and take a deep breath. Acknowledging the beauty of your surroundings can help you cultivate a sense of gratitude in the here and now.


  4. Reframe Negative Thoughts: When you find yourself overwhelmed by negativity, pause and ask yourself, “What can I be grateful for right now?” Shifting your focus to the positive helps to neutralize the grip of anxiety and stress.


The Ripple Effect: Gratitude and Overall Happiness


The effects of gratitude extend beyond mental health—research shows it can boost your physical health as well. Grateful individuals tend to have stronger immune systems, lower blood pressure, and better sleep quality. Gratitude is like a ripple that affects every area of your life, creating a chain reaction of well-being that benefits both your mind and body. It’s a small practice with a big impact.


Why Aren’t We More Grateful?


Despite the benefits, many people struggle to consistently practice gratitude. In a world that often emphasizes what's wrong or what’s missing, it’s easy to overlook the positives. But even in times of hardship, the act of being thankful is a choice—a choice that has the potential to change your perspective, improve your mental health, and create a life that’s more fulfilling.


The Bottom Line


Gratitude isn’t just a feel-good emotion—it’s a powerful mental health tool that can help you rewire your brain, boost your resilience, and build stronger, healthier relationships. The act of being thankful can transform your mindset, alleviate stress, and increase happiness.


So, the next time you’re feeling weighed down by life’s challenges, take a moment to pause and ask yourself: What are you thankful for right now?


💬 Ready to start your own healing journey?


Book a session with one of our compassionate therapists at Moody Melon Counseling. We’re here when you’re ready. 🍉



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The Whale: A Wake-Up Call for Self-Acceptance and the Dangerous Delusion of Escaping Reality

  • Writer: Julie Barris | Crisis Counselor | Therapist-in-Training
    Julie Barris | Crisis Counselor | Therapist-in-Training
  • Feb 9
The Whale: A Wake-Up Call for Self-Acceptance and the Dangerous Delusion of Escaping Reality

Darren Aronofsky's The Whale is a harrowing exploration of pain, guilt, and self-destruction. With Brendan Fraser’s powerful portrayal of Charlie, a man suffering from morbid obesity, the film delves deep into the complexity of human relationships, especially the strained bond between Charlie and his estranged daughter. But beyond the emotional weight of Charlie's struggles, the film also subtly challenges our perceptions of addiction, particularly through the lens of his daughter’s marijuana use. While this element of the story may seem secondary, it offers a sharp commentary on how substances, such as marijuana, are often used as a way to numb pain—and how they ultimately hinder true healing.


The Illusion of Escape: Marijuana as a Coping Mechanism


One of the key emotional undercurrents of The Whale is the daughter’s use of marijuana, which she relies on to escape the overwhelming emotions she’s too afraid to confront. Though the film doesn’t directly focus on her addiction, her reliance on marijuana serves as a quiet but potent symbol of avoidance. By using marijuana, she creates a temporary buffer from her inner turmoil and the unresolved anger she holds toward her father. However, much like Charlie's struggles with food, this coping mechanism offers only a fleeting sense of relief.


The way The Whale portrays marijuana use in this context underlines an important, often overlooked point: substances might provide short-term escape, but they never truly address the underlying pain. The film doesn't glamorize or trivialize marijuana use, nor does it offer a simplistic view of addiction. Instead, it shows how these distractions merely allow the characters to perpetuate cycles of avoidance and emotional stagnation—while ultimately leaving them stuck in their pain.



The Power of Self-Acceptance


At the heart of The Whale lies a deeper message about self-acceptance and the healing that comes from confronting our own truths. Charlie’s journey, though filled with intense shame and self-loathing, highlights the significance of accepting who we are—flaws and all. His story is a reminder that true healing isn’t found in hiding from our emotions or seeking external fixes, but in embracing the parts of ourselves we’ve been taught to hide or reject.


The film subtly contrasts Charlie’s inner turmoil with his daughter’s struggles, particularly her inability to accept the reality of their fractured relationship. Both characters cling to illusions—Charlie to the belief that his body can provide protection from emotional pain, and his daughter to the hope that marijuana can keep her from facing the truth of their past. Yet, both find themselves suffocating under the weight of these illusions, unable to move forward until they face the truth.


Charlie’s path to redemption isn’t found in finding an external solution or having someone "save" him—it’s in realizing that only he can save himself through the slow, painful process of self-acceptance.


Only You Can Save Yourself


The Whale makes a sobering point: while we may lean on substances, food, people, or other distractions in an attempt to escape our pain, ultimately, we are the ones who must do the difficult work of healing. No one can rescue us from the darkness we face except ourselves. It’s only by confronting our inner demons—accepting the things we’ve tried to avoid—that we can begin to move toward real change.


Charlie’s story demonstrates the profound impact that self-acceptance can have on our mental health and overall well-being. The film is a stark reminder that healing is not an easy road, nor is it a quick fix. It requires us to face the parts of ourselves we most want to run from and, in doing so, reclaim the power to heal.


An Eye-Opening Question


As we watch Charlie struggle with his past and his daughter’s painful detachment, we are left with one compelling question: How often do we rely on distractions—whether it’s substances, relationships, or unhealthy coping mechanisms—to escape our own pain, and what might happen if we dared to face our truth and practice self-acceptance instead?


💬 Ready to start your own healing journey?


Book a session with one of our compassionate therapists at Moody Melon Counseling. We’re here when you’re ready. 🍉



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From Struggle to Strength: Celebrating Resilience in Black Communities and How to Cope

  • Writer: Julie Barris | Crisis Counselor | Therapist-in-Training
    Julie Barris | Crisis Counselor | Therapist-in-Training
  • Feb 8

Celebrating resilience in Black communities means honoring the strength, creativity, and unwavering spirit that have sustained communities through centuries of adversity. By acknowledging and embracing these qualities, we can inspire a future where struggle is reframed as a powerful catalyst for growth and empowerment.

From Struggle to Strength: Celebrating Resilience in Black Communities and How to Cope

Black communities across the country have long been a place where culture and resilience intertwine. Yet, for many, these communities also carry the weight of struggle—historical, socio-economic, and psychological burdens that have been passed down through generations. From the effects of systemic racism and economic disparity to violence, under-resourced schools, and job inequality, these communities have been continuously tested. However, within the struggle lies an undeniable spirit of perseverance, and within this spirit, we find strength that can lead to healing.


Resilience in the Face of Adversity


Despite facing adversity, Black communities have always celebrated their strength, resilience, and the power of community. This struggle, though challenging, has birthed leaders, artists, activists, and everyday heroes who refuse to be defined by their circumstances. It’s a struggle that manifests itself in every corner of the community: in the laughter shared on stoops, in the music that fills the streets, in the mentorship passed down from elders, and in the bold defiance against a system designed to oppress. This struggle isn’t just about surviving; it’s about rising, innovating, and pushing back against the forces that try to keep communities down.


Embracing Strength: How to Cope and Heal


But how do we celebrate this struggle in a way that leads to healing and growth? How do we break free from the psychological toll of constant adversity and build coping mechanisms that sustain us in the long run? The answer lies in both embracing the collective strength of these communities and acknowledging the need for individual healing. In order to cope with the emotional and psychological impact of decades of hardship, it’s crucial to first recognize the power within the struggle. Mental health practices, particularly ones rooted in cultural understanding, are key to unlocking this strength.


The Role of Culturally Competent Therapy


Therapeutic approaches that embrace the cultural experiences of Black individuals can provide a roadmap for coping with trauma and adversity. Culturally competent therapists, who understand the nuances of the Black experience, play a significant role in helping individuals reclaim their mental well-being. Equally important is the role of community support. The collective power of family, friends, neighbors, and local organizations provides a foundation of strength that helps individuals in these communities not just survive, but thrive. It is in these bonds that healing can take root—whether through community workshops, mentorship programs, or simply offering a listening ear.


Breaking Free: Shifting the Narrative


Yet, breaking free from the cycle of struggle requires a shift in perspective. It’s time to move beyond simply enduring hardship and start celebrating the resilience that Black communities have cultivated for generations. Self-care, mental health education, and therapy that meets individuals where they are—acknowledging their cultural experiences and challenges—are powerful tools for change. Empowering individuals to address their mental health needs, rather than ignoring or stigmatizing them, can pave the way for true freedom and growth.


The Path to Transformation


So, as we reflect on the challenges faced by Black communities, the question becomes: How can we celebrate the resilience of these communities and channel it into the healing and coping strategies needed to break free from the cycle of struggle? How can we foster a new narrative of strength, where struggle is seen not as an obstacle, but as a powerful force for transformation?


💬 Ready to start your own healing journey?


Book a session with one of our compassionate therapists at Moody Melon Counseling. We’re here when you’re ready. 🍉



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