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  • Writer: Julie Barris | Crisis Counselor | Therapist-in-Training
    Julie Barris | Crisis Counselor | Therapist-in-Training
  • Aug 8

The 5-Minute Mindfulness practice offers a simple yet powerful way to pause, breathe, and reconnect with the present moment—no special tools or training required. Just five minutes a day can ground your thoughts, reduce stress, and create space for clarity in the middle of a busy life.

The 5-Minute Mindfulness Shift: How a Daily Pause Can Change Everything

You don’t have to sit on a cushion or chant in Sanskrit to practice mindfulness. You don’t need an hour of silence, perfect posture, or a life free of distractions. In fact, you’re already halfway there if you’re reading this with curiosity and awareness.


Mindfulness isn’t something extra to do—it’s a way to be.


And in today’s hyper-connected, overstimulated world, the ability to slow down and tune in isn’t just helpful—it’s life-changing.


What Is Mindfulness, Really?


Mindfulness is the practice of paying full attention to the present moment, with openness and without judgment. It’s about becoming aware of your thoughts, emotions, and bodily sensations—not to fix them, but to witness them with curiosity and compassion.


It’s not about clearing your mind or achieving some zen state of bliss. It’s about showing up fully in your life, as it is, moment by moment. That might sound simple. But in practice? It’s radical.



Why Mindfulness Matters Now More Than Ever


The modern world is a master of distraction. We move through our days pulled in a hundred directions—notifications, to-do lists, social media, endless thoughts about the past and future. Our minds are rarely here. And this constant mental noise creates stress, anxiety, disconnection, and burnout.


Mindfulness brings us back to the only place where life actually happens: now.


Here’s what research tells us about the benefits of consistent mindfulness practice:


  • Reduced stress and anxiety: Mindfulness reduces activity in the amygdala—the brain’s fear center—helping regulate emotional reactivity.

  • Improved focus and clarity: MRI studies show that mindfulness strengthens the prefrontal cortex, improving attention, memory, and decision-making.

  • Better emotional regulation: Mindfulness cultivates non-reactivity and emotional resilience, allowing us to respond rather than react.

  • Lowered symptoms of depression: Regular mindfulness has been shown to reduce rumination and increase self-compassion.

  • Greater overall well-being: People who practice mindfulness report higher levels of life satisfaction and a deeper sense of meaning.


And the best part? These results don’t require hours of meditation. Even just 5–10 minutes a day can start to create lasting neural and emotional shifts.



5 Everyday Ways to Practice Mindfulness


You don’t need a new routine—just a new intention. Here are simple ways to bring mindfulness into your daily life:


1. Mindful Mornings

Before reaching for your phone, take 3 deep breaths. Notice how your body feels. Set a gentle intention for the day: “I will stay present,” or “I’ll meet myself with kindness.”


2. Mindful Eating

Try eating one meal a day without screens. Slow down. Notice the colors, smells, textures, and tastes. Chew slowly. Experience each bite like it’s the first.


3. Mindful Transitions

Whether it’s walking to your car, getting off a Zoom call, or switching tasks, take 30 seconds to pause and breathe. Ask yourself: Where am I mentally right now?


4. Mindful Listening

In your next conversation, practice listening without planning your response. Just be present with the other person. Notice their tone, pace, and emotions.


5. Mindful Breathing Breaks

Set a reminder on your phone: “Breathe.” When it goes off, stop what you’re doing and take 5 slow breaths. Feel the rise and fall of your chest. That’s it.


The Ripple Effect


Mindfulness doesn’t just benefit you—it changes how you show up in relationships, work, parenting, and conflict. The more you practice, the more you notice yourself pausing instead of reacting. Listening instead of interrupting. Calming yourself before spiraling. Choosing your values over your impulses.


Over time, that pause becomes power.


It becomes a doorway to freedom from the automatic patterns that keep us stuck. It becomes a way of living with more compassion, clarity, and courage.


Final Thought


You don’t need to be perfect. You don’t even need to be calm. You just need to be present.

Start with five minutes. Sit with yourself. Breathe. Notice. That’s where the shift begins.


So here’s the question:If five minutes of mindfulness could reshape how you experience your entire day—what’s stopping you from beginning right now?


💬 Ready to start your own healing journey?


Book a session with one of our compassionate therapists at Moody Melon Counseling. We’re here when you’re ready. 🍉



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  • Writer: Julie Barris | Crisis Counselor | Therapist-in-Training
    Julie Barris | Crisis Counselor | Therapist-in-Training
  • May 29

DBT supports PTSD recovery by helping individuals regulate overwhelming emotions, tolerate distress safely, and rebuild a sense of self that trauma often fractures. Through skills like mindfulness and emotional regulation, DBT supports PTSD recovery not just by managing symptoms, but by empowering survivors to reclaim their lives with resilience and self-compassion.

Building Bridges After the Break: How DBT Supports PTSD Recovery

When we think of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), images of flashbacks, anxiety, and emotional flooding often come to mind. But beneath the surface of these symptoms lies a deeper struggle: the feeling that your inner world is unmanageable, unsafe, or disconnected from who you once were. For many, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) offers not just coping skills—but a compassionate map back to themselves.


Originally developed by Dr. Marsha Linehan for individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder and chronic suicidality, DBT has become a lifeline for many living with PTSD. Why? Because DBT doesn’t just treat symptoms—it teaches people how to navigate the emotional storms trauma leaves behind.



The Four Pillars of Healing


At the heart of DBT are four core skill areas: Mindfulness, Distress Tolerance, Emotion Regulation, and Interpersonal Effectiveness. For trauma survivors, these aren't just therapeutic tools—they’re survival skills reimagined.


  • Mindfulness helps individuals reconnect with the present moment, anchoring them during flashbacks or dissociation. Many trauma survivors feel "hijacked" by the past; mindfulness gives them back a sense of agency over their attention and body.


  • Distress Tolerance equips clients to ride out emotional pain without resorting to harmful coping strategies like self-harm, numbing, or avoidance. In DBT, clients learn crisis survival skills that offer real alternatives—like grounding exercises, the TIPP skill (Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, Progressive relaxation), and self-soothing.


  • Emotion Regulation teaches clients how to name, understand, and manage overwhelming feelings like shame, rage, or fear. Instead of being controlled by emotions that don’t make sense, clients build a toolkit for emotional clarity and balance.


  • Interpersonal Effectiveness helps trauma survivors relearn how to relate to others. When PTSD results from relational trauma—like abuse, betrayal, or abandonment—this skill set empowers clients to set boundaries, ask for what they need, and rebuild trust slowly and safely.


DBT Meets Trauma: What Makes It Work?


What sets DBT apart from traditional trauma therapies is its balance of acceptance and change. Many trauma survivors feel pressure to "get over it" or to always be working toward healing. DBT acknowledges that it’s okay to feel broken and want to move forward. Clients are taught how to hold two truths at once: “This pain is real, and I can still build a life worth living.”


For individuals with PTSD, particularly complex trauma or co-occurring issues like self-harm, substance use, or dissociation, DBT provides a structured, skill-focused approach that doesn't re-traumatize. Instead of diving straight into trauma narratives, DBT helps clients stabilize first—so that when trauma processing happens (often with EMDR, CPT, or prolonged exposure), the emotional foundation is stronger and safer.


When Healing Feels Possible Again


One of the most beautiful things about DBT is its validation. Survivors often hear, “What happened to you was terrible—but your reactions make sense.” In a world that may have dismissed their pain, DBT offers a new kind of truth: you are not broken beyond repair.


Whether taught in group sessions, individual therapy, or integrated with trauma-specific treatments, DBT can gently guide clients from survival to self-understanding. It's not about rushing to "fix" trauma—it's about learning to live alongside it, with dignity, skill, and hope.



So here’s the real question:


What if the first step in healing trauma isn’t reliving it—but learning the skills to hold your pain with compassion?


💬 Ready to start your own healing journey?


Book a session with one of our compassionate therapists at Moody Melon Counseling. We’re here when you’re ready. 🍉



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  • Writer: Julie Barris | Crisis Counselor | Therapist-in-Training
    Julie Barris | Crisis Counselor | Therapist-in-Training
  • May 23

Sensory tools that help kids feel safe can create calm in moments of overwhelm, offering comfort through touch, sound, smell, and movement. When used with care, they can turn scary feelings into manageable ones, giving children the power to understand and regulate their emotions.

Feel It to Heal It: 4 Sensory Tools to Help Kids Feel Safe Inside

When kids go through scary or hard things, their brains and bodies can feel like they’re always on high alert—even when nothing bad is happening. Loud noises, big feelings, or sudden changes might make them want to run, hide, or explode. That’s not bad behavior—it’s the body trying to protect itself.


The good news? There are ways to help kids feel safer, calmer, and more in control. These simple sensory tools don’t just make kids “behave”—they help them heal.



Here are four kid-friendly strategies that use the five senses to build comfort, calm, and confidence:


1. Peel the Anger Onion


Anger is like an onion—it has layers. When kids feel mad, they might also be feeling hurt, scared, or left out underneath. Drawing or imagining an “anger onion” helps them explore what’s hiding inside their big feelings.


Try this: Draw an onion with layers labeled: "mad," "frustrated," "sad," "scared," "lonely," etc. When a child is upset, sit together and gently ask: What’s under your mad today? Let them color or point to how they feel. This helps them name their emotions—and naming them is the first step to calming them.


2. Make a Worry Box


Kids with trauma often hold a lot of worries inside. A Worry Box is a safe place where they can “put away” those fears for a little while. It teaches them that worries don’t have to stay stuck in their heads.


Try this: Let the child decorate a small box or jar. When a worry pops up, they can write it down (or draw it) and put it inside. You might say: We can visit those worries later, but for now, they’re safe in the box. Over time, this gives kids power over their thoughts—and shows them they don’t have to carry everything alone.


3. Collect a Calming or Bored Bag


Some kids need extra comfort when they’re bored, waiting, or feeling “too much.” A calming bag filled with sensory tools can help them settle, fidget safely, or just feel okay when things around them don’t.


Try this: Use a lunchbox or pencil case and fill it with cozy or fun items: a soft fabric scrap, a squishy toy, a fidget spinner, noise-canceling headphones, a feather, a scented sticker, or a mini picture book. Invite them to use it whenever their body feels buzzy, bored, or blah.


4. Belly Breathing: Your Superpower Tool


Belly breathing is like a superhero move for your nervous system. It helps kids feel calmer from the inside out—especially when they’ve learned the world isn’t always safe.


Try this: Have the child lie down with a stuffed animal on their belly. As they breathe in slowly through their nose, the stuffed animal rises. As they breathe out through their mouth, it falls. You can say, Let’s help your teddy go on a little ride. Just one minute of this can help slow their heart rate and make their brain feel safer.


These sensory tools help kids feel like they matter—and that their feelings make sense. For children with trauma, they’re not just calming tricks—they’re invitations to feel safe, seen, and supported.



Now ask them (or yourself):


If your feelings could talk, what would they ask you to do to help them feel safe today?


💬 Ready to start your own healing journey?


Book a session with one of our compassionate therapists at Moody Melon Counseling. We’re here when you’re ready. 🍉



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