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Building Bridges After the Break: How DBT Supports PTSD Recovery

Julie Barris | Crisis Counselor | Therapist-in-Training
May 29

DBT supports PTSD recovery by helping individuals regulate overwhelming emotions, tolerate distress safely, and rebuild a sense of self that trauma often fractures. Through skills like mindfulness and emotional regulation, DBT supports PTSD recovery not just by managing symptoms, but by empowering survivors to reclaim their lives with resilience and self-compassion.

Building Bridges After the Break: How DBT Supports PTSD Recovery

When we think of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), images of flashbacks, anxiety, and emotional flooding often come to mind. But beneath the surface of these symptoms lies a deeper struggle: the feeling that your inner world is unmanageable, unsafe, or disconnected from who you once were. For many, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) offers not just coping skills—but a compassionate map back to themselves.

Originally developed by Dr. Marsha Linehan for individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder and chronic suicidality, DBT has become a lifeline for many living with PTSD. Why? Because DBT doesn’t just treat symptoms—it teaches people how to navigate the emotional storms trauma leaves behind.

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The Four Pillars of Healing

At the heart of DBT are four core skill areas: Mindfulness, Distress Tolerance, Emotion Regulation, and Interpersonal Effectiveness. For trauma survivors, these aren't just therapeutic tools—they’re survival skills reimagined.

Mindfulness helps individuals reconnect with the present moment, anchoring them during flashbacks or dissociation. Many trauma survivors feel "hijacked" by the past; mindfulness gives them back a sense of agency over their attention and body.
Distress Tolerance equips clients to ride out emotional pain without resorting to harmful coping strategies like self-harm, numbing, or avoidance. In DBT, clients learn crisis survival skills that offer real alternatives—like grounding exercises, the TIPP skill (Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, Progressive relaxation), and self-soothing.
Emotion Regulation teaches clients how to name, understand, and manage overwhelming feelings like shame, rage, or fear. Instead of being controlled by emotions that don’t make sense, clients build a toolkit for emotional clarity and balance.
Interpersonal Effectiveness helps trauma survivors relearn how to relate to others. When PTSD results from relational trauma—like abuse, betrayal, or abandonment—this skill set empowers clients to set boundaries, ask for what they need, and rebuild trust slowly and safely.

DBT Meets Trauma: What Makes It Work?

What sets DBT apart from traditional trauma therapies is its balance of acceptance and change. Many trauma survivors feel pressure to "get over it" or to always be working toward healing. DBT acknowledges that it’s okay to feel broken and want to move forward. Clients are taught how to hold two truths at once: “This pain is real, and I can still build a life worth living.”

For individuals with PTSD, particularly complex trauma or co-occurring issues like self-harm, substance use, or dissociation, DBT provides a structured, skill-focused approach that doesn't re-traumatize. Instead of diving straight into trauma narratives, DBT helps clients stabilize first—so that when trauma processing happens (often with EMDR, CPT, or prolonged exposure), the emotional foundation is stronger and safer.

When Healing Feels Possible Again

One of the most beautiful things about DBT is its validation. Survivors often hear, “What happened to you was terrible—but your reactions make sense.” In a world that may have dismissed their pain, DBT offers a new kind of truth: you are not broken beyond repair.

Whether taught in group sessions, individual therapy, or integrated with trauma-specific treatments, DBT can gently guide clients from survival to self-understanding. It's not about rushing to "fix" trauma—it's about learning to live alongside it, with dignity, skill, and hope.

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So here’s the real question:

What if the first step in healing trauma isn’t reliving it—but learning the skills to hold your pain with compassion?

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How Does DBT Transform Lives with Borderline Personality Disorder? A Look Through the Adherent Model

Julie Barris | Crisis Counselor | Therapist-in-Training
Apr 9

The Adherent Model of DBT emphasizes the importance of both patients and therapists adhering strictly to the therapeutic protocol for successful outcomes. By committing to consistent engagement and structured techniques, this model fosters long-term emotional regulation and personal growth in individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder.

How Does DBT Transform Lives with Borderline Personality Disorder? A Look Through the Adherent Model

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is often misunderstood, leaving many to wonder how people living with this condition can achieve stability, meaningful relationships, and emotional resilience. The symptoms of BPD, such as intense mood swings, fear of abandonment, and difficulties in maintaining relationships, can be incredibly challenging both for those affected and their loved ones. But there’s hope, thanks to Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT).

DBT, developed by psychologist Marsha Linehan in the 1980s, is a therapeutic approach specifically designed for individuals with BPD. What makes DBT unique is its blend of cognitive-behavioral techniques with mindfulness practices, aimed at helping patients regulate emotions, improve interpersonal skills, and build a life worth living.

But how exactly does DBT work? To answer that, let’s take a closer look at its application through the Adherent Model.

The Adherent Model: A Deep Dive

The Adherent Model of DBT focuses on adherence to the treatment protocol as the foundation of successful outcomes. This model emphasizes not only the importance of patients’ commitment to their therapy but also the adherence of therapists to the structured and evidence-based techniques that have been proven effective.

Here’s how it breaks down:

Commitment to Treatment: DBT requires patients to commit to a long-term treatment plan. This commitment is critical because, unlike other forms of therapy that may focus more on insight, DBT is action-oriented. Patients are encouraged to actively engage with the therapy process, attending individual sessions, participating in group skills training, and practicing what they’ve learned between sessions. This consistent involvement helps build a foundation of trust and stability.

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Balancing Acceptance and Change: The core dialectic in DBT is the balance between acceptance and change. Individuals with BPD may feel as though their emotional pain is insurmountable, but DBT teaches them that acceptance of their current emotional state doesn’t mean they have to stay stuck in it. By learning skills to regulate intense emotions and improve distress tolerance, patients can move toward change, without invalidating their lived experiences.
Skills Training: DBT is structured around four primary skill modules:
- Mindfulness: Cultivating the ability to be present in the moment without judgment.
- Distress Tolerance: Learning to endure emotional discomfort without resorting to self-destructive behaviors.
- Emotion Regulation: Understanding and managing intense emotions in a healthy way.
- Interpersonal Effectiveness: Building healthier, more stable relationships with others.
These skills provide patients with tangible tools to manage everyday challenges while reducing the impulsivity that often leads to crisis situations.

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Therapist Adherence: For DBT to work effectively, therapists must also adhere to the model. This means therapists must be consistently available for crisis coaching and support and maintain a non-judgmental, validating approach. The Adherent Model posits that therapists, like patients, need to stick to the proven principles of DBT, ensuring that patients are receiving the structured treatment they need for progress.
Behavioral Change Reinforcement: DBT is highly behavioral, and therapists work with patients to reinforce positive changes, even small ones. Celebrating progress, no matter how small, can help individuals with BPD feel encouraged and supported as they develop new coping mechanisms.
Phone Coaching: A particularly unique feature of DBT is its phone coaching component. When patients experience an emotional crisis, they can contact their therapist between sessions for guidance. This real-time support helps prevent impulsive decisions and ensures patients feel continuously supported during moments of vulnerability.

A Model for Success

The Adherent Model helps reinforce DBT's structured approach, ensuring that both patient and therapist commit to a treatment path that is clear, effective, and grounded in evidence. As a result, DBT has proven to be one of the most successful forms of therapy for people with BPD, helping them manage emotional dysregulation, reduce harmful behaviors, and ultimately lead more fulfilling lives.

The model’s emphasis on both patient and therapist adherence creates a therapeutic alliance where consistency and trust flourish. This can make all the difference in helping those with BPD feel empowered, understood, and in control of their emotions and actions.

In Conclusion: A Life-Changing Therapy

DBT has proven to be a game-changer for many living with Borderline Personality Disorder. With its structured and mindful approach, it offers hope for those seeking a path to emotional stability. It’s a reminder that with the right tools, commitment, and support, individuals with BPD can navigate their challenges and lead lives full of meaning and connection.

So, are you ready to start the journey toward emotional resilience?