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  • Writer: Julie Barris | Crisis Counselor | Therapist-in-Training
    Julie Barris | Crisis Counselor | Therapist-in-Training
  • Jun 21

Children are not always able to explain their emotions. For those experiencing trauma, anxiety, grief, or developmental delays, expressing inner experiences verbally can feel impossible. But long before children can speak fluently, they draw. They dance. They make sounds. Creativity is their first language.

Color Outside the Lines: How Expressive Art Therapy Helps Children Speak Without Words

Expressive art therapy taps into this natural mode of communication. It allows children to explore thoughts and feelings using symbolic expression—offering them a way to feel seen and heard without needing to “say” anything. Whether it’s a child who survived abuse, a teen coping with divorce, or a neurodivergent child struggling to regulate emotions, art becomes a safe bridge between the inner world and the outer one.


The Healing Power of Creativity


The idea that creativity heals isn’t new. As early as World War I, doctors observed that traumatized soldiers expressed more through drawing than through words. These insights laid the foundation for art therapy, formally developed in the mid-20th century by pioneers like Adrian Hill, a British artist who coined the term art therapy in 1942 after discovering the therapeutic benefits of painting while recovering from tuberculosis.


In the U.S., Margaret Naumburg, often called the “mother of art therapy,” emphasized the importance of free expression and unconscious imagery in healing emotional distress. Working with children and adolescents in schools and psychiatric settings, Naumburg believed art could access what words could not—especially in youth who had experienced early relational trauma.


Modern expressive art therapy builds on this legacy. Creative practices like drawing, sculpture, storytelling, and movement help children externalize inner conflicts. Through play and imagery, they can reclaim control, express buried feelings, and reconstruct personal narratives with a sense of agency.



It’s Not About the Picture—It’s About the Process


A common misconception is that expressive art therapy is about creating something beautiful or skillful. But in therapy, the focus isn’t on aesthetics—it’s on the process. A child’s torn paper collage may reflect their experience of family separation. Aggressive brushstrokes might symbolize internalized anger or fear. Even an absence of color can say something powerful.


This process-focused approach is rooted in the work of Edith Kramer, another foundational figure in art therapy. Unlike Naumburg, who leaned toward psychoanalytic interpretations, Kramer emphasized art-making itself as a healing act, especially for children. She observed that children’s spontaneous creativity had therapeutic value, independent of verbal discussion.


Today, therapists trained in this modality pay close attention to how a child engages with materials—Are they tentative or bold? Do they crumple or preserve their work? These actions, and not just the final product, inform the therapeutic conversation.


Science Backs the Brushstrokes


Research continues to validate what early art therapists intuited: expressive art works. A 2019 study published in The Arts in Psychotherapy found that art therapy significantly reduced trauma symptoms in children exposed to domestic violence. Expressive art therapy has also proven effective for children with autism spectrum disorder (ASD). Nonverbal children often find it easier to engage with therapists through drawing or music, which creates a non-threatening space for connection. In hospitals, art therapy helps children coping with chronic illness process fear and physical pain. In schools, it supports emotional learning and behavior management.


What’s unique about expressive arts is their ability to meet a child exactly where they are. Unlike talk therapy, which relies on verbal maturity, expressive therapy welcomes silence, mess, and metaphor.



Parents Often Say: ‘I Had No Idea They Felt That Way’


One of the most profound impacts of expressive art therapy is how it fosters understanding between children and the adults in their lives. A child might not say, “I feel abandoned,” but might draw a house with no doors. A child grieving a parent may create repeated images of dark shapes or invisible figures.


These artworks become tools—not for interpretation like dream analysis, but for empathic inquiry. When parents are shown their child’s work with gentle guidance, they often experience an emotional breakthrough. They see past the tantrums or silence and into the emotional truth of their child’s experience.


This reflective dialogue can be life-changing. It not only helps the child feel heard and validated but also gives parents insight into how to emotionally attune and respond more effectively.


From Scribbles to Strength: Building Emotional Literacy


Expressive art therapy is not only about healing past wounds—it also builds lifelong emotional skills. Children learn to name their feelings (“This red blob feels like my anger”), to recognize emotional triggers, and to develop healthy coping strategies. This emotional literacy strengthens self-esteem and social functioning.


For example, in one school-based art therapy program, children created masks representing “what I show the world” and “what I feel inside.” This exercise opened space for powerful discussions about shame, vulnerability, and belonging. For children who often feel misunderstood, being able to see their feelings on paper helps validate their internal experiences.


Over time, these practices increase a child’s resilience—the ability to bounce back from adversity with insight and strength. The skills developed in therapy often translate into better communication at home, more emotional regulation in the classroom, and improved relationships with peers.


Are We Really Seeing What They’re Trying to Show Us?


Children often speak in metaphor, symbol, and play. Their art is a window into their world—a world that’s complex, emotional, and often overlooked. Yet in a fast-paced society focused on test scores, diagnoses, and outcomes, their creative expressions are sometimes dismissed as “just play” or “just scribbles.”


But what if those scribbles are a scream for connection? A silent plea for safety? A story waiting to be heard?


Are we truly paying attention—not just to what children are saying, but to what they are drawing, building, and creating? Because in the space between brushstrokes and fingerpaints, there just might be a way back to trust, healing, and hope.


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  • Writer: Julie Barris | Crisis Counselor | Therapist-in-Training
    Julie Barris | Crisis Counselor | Therapist-in-Training
  • Jun 4

Psychodynamic therapy helps clients heal childhood trauma by uncovering how early relationships and experiences shape current emotions, behaviors, and self-beliefs. By creating space for insight, grieving, and emotional processing, psychodynamic therapy helps clients reclaim parts of themselves they had to hide to survive.

Echoes from the Past: How Psychodynamic Therapy Helps Clients Heal Childhood Trauma

Childhood trauma doesn’t stay in childhood. It echoes—through adult relationships, self-esteem, decision-making, and even the body. For many clients, trauma shows up not as a memory but as a pattern—a reflex to withdraw when loved, to panic when slighted, or to sabotage success because it feels unfamiliar or unsafe. These aren’t conscious choices. They’re emotional survival strategies learned early, often in homes where safety, love, or stability were inconsistent or absent.


Psychodynamic therapy helps clients explore these early experiences not to place blame, but to understand how the past informs the present—and how it can stop running the show.


More Than Just Talking About the Past


A common misconception is that psychodynamic therapy is only about digging up old memories. In truth, it’s about uncovering the emotional logic behind current suffering. This approach understands that the roots of many adult struggles are unconscious, buried beneath years of coping, masking, or avoidance.


For example, someone who grew up walking on eggshells around a volatile parent may struggle with setting boundaries as an adult. They may not remember why, but their body remembers the danger of conflict. Psychodynamic therapy gently helps clients connect the dots—between past emotional injuries and present relational patterns—so they can begin to make new, empowered choices.



“Why Do I Always Feel This Way?”


Imagine a client who feels intense panic when their partner doesn’t respond to a text. They might say, “I know it’s irrational, but I feel abandoned.” That emotional intensity isn’t about the text—it’s about a younger version of themselves who learned that love could vanish at any moment.


Psychodynamic therapy honors these younger parts. The therapist might ask: “When was the first time you remember feeling that kind of panic?” This question opens the door to buried stories—often of neglect, unpredictability, or unmet emotional needs. As clients begin to recognize their emotional responses as echoes of the past, they gain the power to respond instead of react.


The Power of the Therapy Relationship


One of the most powerful elements of psychodynamic work is transference—the way clients unconsciously replay past relational dynamics with their therapist. While this might sound technical, it’s deeply human. Clients may fear they’re too much, expect rejection, or idealize the therapist—just as they once did with caregivers. These feelings are not interruptions—they’re data.


In this relational space, the therapist doesn’t just talk about safety—they embody it. When a client becomes withdrawn or angry and the therapist remains present and curious, something radical happens: the client begins to experience a new template for connection. This lived experience of being accepted, even in vulnerability, becomes the seed of healing.


Defenses: Not Broken, But Brave


Clients often come into therapy ashamed of their coping mechanisms—self-isolation, perfectionism, overachievement, people-pleasing. Psychodynamic therapy reframes these as brilliant, if outdated, survival tools. Every defense once had a purpose: to protect, to soothe, to preserve dignity or safety in an unsafe environment.


The goal isn’t to tear these down, but to understand their origin with compassion. A client who dissociates during conflict, for example, may learn that zoning out was the only way to survive a household where emotions were explosive or ignored. Once these defenses are recognized, the client can begin to build more adaptive strategies, grounded in the present rather than the past.


So, Who Is Psychodynamic Therapy Best For?


Psychodynamic therapy is especially helpful for clients who:


  • Struggle with recurring relationship issues that don’t resolve with surface-level interventions

  • Feel stuck in emotional patterns without clear reasons

  • Have complex or early-life trauma histories

  • Are curious, open to introspection, and willing to explore deeper emotional layers

  • Want not just symptom relief, but insight and long-term change


However, it's not always the best fit for everyone. Here are some important limitations:


  • It’s a slower process, and results may not be immediate—this can be frustrating for those in acute crisis or looking for short-term coping strategies.

  • It may feel abstract or too "in the head" for clients who prefer structured, skills-based approaches like CBT or DBT.

  • It requires a certain level of psychological mindedness, meaning clients need to be able (or willing to learn) to reflect on inner experiences.

  • For individuals with severe dissociation, psychosis, or acute substance use without stabilization, this approach may not be safe as a first step and may need to be paired with other interventions first.


That said, when the timing, therapeutic match, and client readiness align, psychodynamic therapy can be deeply transformative.



Slow Work, Deep Change


Psychodynamic therapy isn’t a quick fix—but for trauma survivors, it’s often the right fix. It doesn’t rush the client toward symptom relief; it invites them to explore the origin of their pain, and to gently rewrite the scripts they’ve been living by.


This type of therapy creates space for grieving what was lost—the childhood that wasn’t safe, the care that wasn’t given, the needs that went unseen. Only through grieving can clients reclaim parts of themselves they had to abandon to survive. In doing so, they don’t just “feel better.” They feel whole.


What Might Your Wounds Say?


Psychodynamic therapy asks brave questions—and holds space for difficult answers. In the quiet of the therapy room, many clients begin to hear something they’ve never heard before: the voice of their inner child, asking to be seen, understood, and loved.


So here’s the question:If your childhood wounds could speak, what would they want you to finally understand—and how might your life change if you truly listened?


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Note: This content is fictional and created with the intention to inspire, uplift, and support you on your mental health journey. If it feels discouraging, please feel free to disregard it—your well-being is always the priority.

From Struggle to Strength: Janet’s Journey of Self-Discovery Through Borderline Personality Disorder

Janet’s story is one of resilience, survival, and transformation. A story that starts in the shadows of a tough childhood and stretches into the bright future she never thought was possible. It’s a tale of navigating the stormy seas of mental health, surviving an abusive upbringing, and rising through the complexities of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) to become a social worker, dedicated to helping others find the light she once thought was out of reach.


A Childhood Shaped by Pain


Janet grew up in an environment where love was conditional, and safety was a rare commodity. Raised by a single mother who battled her own demons, Janet learned early on that emotional support was something she would have to fight for, not something that came naturally. As a child, she often felt like she was walking on a tightrope, constantly navigating the turbulent emotional storms at home. There was little consistency in her life, and trust became a fragile thing.


By her teenage years, the seeds of emotional instability had taken root. Janet found herself constantly shifting between intense emotional highs and devastating lows. Relationships were chaotic, and self-worth was tied to fleeting moments of validation, leaving her feeling lost and disconnected.


The Struggles of Being a Single Mom


As a young adult, Janet faced another challenge: becoming a single mom at just 20 years old. Her first child was a beacon of hope in her chaotic world, yet the pressure of motherhood only intensified the emotional turbulence she struggled with daily. Janet had dreams—big dreams—of making something of herself, but she often felt like she was drowning in the responsibilities of motherhood and trying to make sense of her own fractured identity.


It wasn’t until her daughter was a toddler that Janet had a wake-up call. Her emotional reactions—often impulsive and overwhelming—began to affect her relationship with her child. She realized that if she didn’t take control of her own mental health, she risked repeating the cycle of dysfunction and emotional neglect that had shaped her childhood.


The Road to Diagnosis and Understanding


At 24, Janet was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)—a diagnosis that initially filled her with dread, but soon provided clarity. For years, she had struggled with feelings of emptiness, a fear of abandonment, and extreme emotional reactions that left her feeling out of control. The diagnosis allowed her to finally put a name to the turmoil she had lived with for so long. But understanding her mental health condition was only the first step. The real journey began when Janet decided to seek help.


Therapy, particularly Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), was a game-changer. It taught Janet how to manage her emotions, cope with the intensity of her feelings, and create healthier relationships. For the first time in her life, she was able to make sense of her emotions, rather than be ruled by them.


“I realized that my emotional responses weren’t me—they were symptoms of something I needed to heal from,” Janet reflects. “It wasn’t easy, and there were setbacks, but therapy gave me the tools to find stability.”


Becoming the Change She Wanted to See


With newfound strength, Janet went back to school. She began working towards a degree in social work, determined to help others who struggled with mental health in the way she had. She learned to use her personal struggles as fuel for her passion, knowing that her own lived experience would make her more empathetic to the clients she would one day help.

Becoming a social worker was more than just a career path for Janet—it was a way for her to find meaning in her journey. She was no longer just a survivor; she was a guide for others, showing them that healing was possible, even when it felt impossible.


“Working with others who’ve experienced trauma or emotional instability has been healing for me,” she explains. “It reminds me that no matter how dark things get, there’s always hope for change.”


Embracing the Fullness of Who She Is


Today, Janet is a beacon of hope for others, and while her journey is far from perfect, she’s no longer defined by the pain of her past. She’s learned that mental health doesn’t define who you are, and that embracing your struggles is the first step toward healing.


As a mother, she’s been able to provide her daughter with a stable, loving home—one built on understanding, emotional regulation, and healthy communication. And as a social worker, she’s able to offer others the same compassion and understanding that she once longed for.


Janet’s journey is a testament to the power of resilience and the importance of self-compassion. It’s a reminder that no matter where we start, we can always rewrite our story—and it doesn’t have to be one of pain and suffering. It can be a story of growth, healing, and ultimately, empowerment.


A Message to Those Who Struggle


To anyone reading this who feels trapped in the emotional whirlwind that comes with mental health struggles, Janet has a message: “You are not your diagnosis. You are not your past. You are so much more. Keep fighting. Keep growing. There is a place for you to heal, and your story is far from over.”


Final Thoughts


Janet's journey of self-discovery through Borderline Personality Disorder is a powerful reminder that healing is possible, no matter how deep the wounds or how complicated the path. Her story of transformation from a confused, struggling young woman to a confident, compassionate social worker is one that deserves to be heard. It is a message of hope for anyone navigating their own battles, proving that with the right support and a commitment to self-understanding, there is always a way forward.


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